A Sweet Taste of tEeNaPiE

It was raining heavily dis afternoon and i couldnt quite understand why i tend to choose a spaghetti strapped dress designed just like for preggy peeps..actually that dress is one of my favorite because it really is very light and so comfortable to wear …dat was d first dress i saw inside my cabinet and due to laziness i wore it quickly before i could change my mind..i wasnt wearing anything else but dat dress unmindful of d rain dat poured after we got on inside d car…d result…i was freezing cold due to the weather outside, the thin fabric that im wearing and the cold inside due to the car’s airconditioning!!! grrrrrr….talk about wrong move, huh?!?!?we were heading towards d MARINA mall to find Class A imitations of signature bags (e.g Louis Vuitton, Coach, Guess etc) since my aunt who came all d way from d states is just too eager to get her own stuff of imitation bags..hehe unfortunately, there was a schedule for raid in dat area so most of d stalls who sell imitations were closed…huhuhu so we changed destination and we planned to go to Opon’s own version of TABO sa BANAY located near d Birhen sa Regla church in lapu-lapu city wearing this preggy looking dress…(u know d kind dat looks like a duster and d waist go up right below ur bosom)…as i was shifting along d long lines of blouses hanging up each stalls, a familiar looking guy looked right through me then looked down…he just frowned and walked away..it felt weird but i continued looking through d piles of clothes to purchase until a vendor walked up to me saying "that blouse looked good on u even if ur pregnant!!!!!" whoa!!!!!!!!!!!! u just can imagine my grief…huhuhu i admit i’ve gained so much weight lately but i never expected sumbody wud ever give me dat "COMPLIMENT"… now, i really have to lose weight fast!!! i cant anymore bear to hear many people telling me i looked like im pregnant because of gaining so much weight.it’s much bearable for me to be told dat i looked like im an addict for being so skinny dan to be told pregnant because of excessive weight gain!!!! HUHUHU one good lesson i’ve learned from dis experience: NEVER WEAR PREGGY LOOKING DRESS ESPECIALLY WHEN U R ON UR HEAVIEST WEIGHT!!!!

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love.

One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.

Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
Richness answered, " I’m sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."

"I can’t help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."
Sadness answered, "Love, I’m sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness.

Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you."
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn’t hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry.

Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.

Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.

Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

I stumbled into one of an eye-catching article on the net about KISSING Frogs…hehehe it’s kinda interesting and worth reading! it’s very short but it would surely give u some insights about u and ur present relationship with your partner..or if u haven’t found a partner yet, just take this as an advice on how to prevent finding MR. Frog and go out of your way in finding ur TRUE PRINCE!! Here it is…ENJOY READING!!

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ARE YOU DATING A FROG? THINK HE’LL TURN INTO A PRINCE?? FROGEDDABOUTIT!!

Now is the perfect time for women to take stock of their love lives. Did you spend celebrating your special holidays alone? Are you stuck in a dead-end relationship? Do you always hook up with bad boys? And most important — Are you dating a “keeper” or a “leaper?”

Relationship expert and author, Marilyn Anderson, reveals how women can leap away from the wrong men in 2005. She teaches women how to recognize FROGS – the human kind - at first sight. Ms. Anderson says forget the old myth: “You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. “No way,” she says. “The truth is, you can’t find a prince if you’re busy kissing frogs!”

With wit and wisdom, Marilyn discusses the TOP 10 FROGS, including:

THE-LONG-TERM-GO-NOWHERE FROG:
This is the guy who’s always there, he’s just never there to say “I do.” If you’ve been together for years and there’s no ring to decorate your finger - it’s time to re-decorate your love life. He’s not commitment-phobic – he’s commitment-frogic. Quick, before Valentine’s Day, throw him back in the swamp so you can meet your prince.

COUNT FROGULA:
You think you love him, but he always makes you miserable. When he leaves your house, you cry. In fact, when he’s AT your house, you cry. Then, when you cry, he leaves your house. He’s Count Frogula because… any guy who drains the life out of you…. sucks!

DR. JEKYLL & MR. TOAD:
When you’re in public – he’s sweet, loving and wonderful. But when you’re home alone together, he turns into a mean and cold bully frog. Here’s a Wart Warning: If he’s got a split personality – you should be the one to split.

CROAK & DAGGER:
He won’t tell you where he lives, where he works, or what he does. And he won’t give you his phone number - he can call you, but you can’t call him. Remember, mystery men can be exciting – but if he’s mysterious for too long… you should be the one to disappear!

THE OBSESSED-WITH-HIS-EX FROG:
He talks about his ex all the time. He shows you her picture, plays their favorite song, and takes you to their favorite restaurant. Then, when you cook him dinner, he wants you to do it “her” way. And that beautiful engraved bracelet he gave you…has her initials on it! Here’s a Ribbet Snippet: If he can’t get her out of his mind – get him out of yours.

Ms. Anderson cautions women: If you’re playing leapfrog with any of these men, wake up and smell the swamp water! Keep your life away from frogs and move on to find your Prince!

1. Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing? and your voice caught within your chest?
it isn’t love, it’s like.

2. You can’t keep your hand off them, am I right?
it isn’t love, it’s lust

3. Are you proud and eager to show them off?
it isn’t love, it’s luck

4. Do you want them because you know they’re there?
it isn’t love, it’s loneliness

5. Are you there because it’s what everyone wants?
it isn’t love, its loyalty

6. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don’t want to hurt them?
it isn’t love, its pity

7. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
it isn’t love, it’s lack of confidence

8. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
it isn’t love, it’s infatuation

9. Do you tell them that everyday they are the one you think of?
it isn’t love, it’s a lie

10. Are you willing to give up all your favorite things for their sake?
it isn’t love, it’s charity

11. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
it isn’t love, it’s friendship

12. Do you accept their faults because it’s part of who they are?
then it’s love

13. Do you cry for their pain, even when they’re strong?
then it’s love

14. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply, it hurts?
then it’s love

15. Do you stay because a blinding incomprehensible mix of pain, and elations pulls you close and hold you?
then it’s love

16. Are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully with no regrets?
then it’s love

17. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
then it’s love

18. And always remember - love isn’t one sided!! - Both must love for LOVE to exist!

There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn’t know which one he loved more. Someone taught him.

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

"When you are happy, which person would you want to share your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

"When you are sad, which person you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same person when you are happy & sad, that’s the most perfect. But if you don’t think of the same person, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn’t stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she/he is happy, but looks for someone else when she/he is sad, this lover is too unstable, she/he doesn’t treat you as someone she/he can spend the rest of her/his life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her/his happiness. But, if she/he is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her/his side & ease her/his pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her/his heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?

RULE 1.

Life is not fair; get used to it.

RULE 2.

The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you
to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

RULE 3.

You will NOT make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school OR
college. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone, until you earn
both.

RULE 4.

If you think your teacher is tough, wait until you get a boss. He
doesn’t have tenure.

RULE 5.

Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a
different word for burger flipping; they called it opportunity.

RULE 6.

If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your
mistakes, learn from them.

RULE 7.

Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now.
They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and
listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the
rain forest from the parasites of your parents’ generation, try
"delousing" the closet in your own room.

RULE 8.

Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has
not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades; they’ll give
you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear
the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

RULE 9.

Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very
few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on
your own time.

RULE 10.

Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave
the coffee shop and go to jobs.

RULE 11.

Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people that’s important. It’s what they do about it.

I’ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.

I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned that it’s a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. (Amen to that!)

I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.

I’ve learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned that I’m getting more and more like my grandma, and I’m kinda happy about it.

I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it

I’ve learned that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I’m forced to choose sides even when I don’t want to.

I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned that if you don’t want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.

I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I’ve learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.

I’ve learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.

I’ve learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.

I’ve learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I’ve learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

I’ve learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.

I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe.

im pretty bored nowadays…my life has always been HOME-Work-HOME… i wonder if i could ever get a life..hehehe i could only go out wen i want to watch a movie or spend time wid my family at d malls but apart from that i’ve got no other activities..hehehe but im hapi..and so i think i am..honestly i dont know anymore wat pleases me or worse i dont know anymore wat i want in my life..maybe because of d constant solitary activities dat i  do every single day dats y i ended being trapped into this so-called-routine-life…hehehe my routine life makes my mind idle….i dont want it to happen but when ur life seems to be so relaxed and too comfortable u tend to get d hang of it and live each day of ur life d way it had been for the past few days and realized in d end dat u r becoming stagnant…hahaha Watching entertainment programs on TV fascinates me and helps me make something out of d time i spent inside my home… TV is my most special companion nowadays, it’s becoming my even more dependable BESTFRIEND…hehehe i know im not making any sense in here and frankly speaking i dont know where this blog is leading me but my fingers seemed to have its own mind and it’s just typing wat it really wanted to say…hahaha LUNATIC..blog u agen some other time..dont have anything to say anymore so TEEECEEEEE hehehe